It's been raining the whole day today, and it was raining hard.
I' chatting with mitch now, and we're talking about her life now in uk, how unfortunate her situation is. she and her hubby are having a difficult time with the expiry of their visas coming up, and she's kinda left with several options, none of which seems to go her hubby's way.
her hubby, loves her deeply, and i mean deeply that i've concluded, na me nababaliw pala talaga sa pag-ibig.
she wants an annulment, he wants to stay with her, cuz according to him, and these are his words, "hindi pa ako tapos na mahalin ka"...... oh my gosh!, sobrang naawa ako sa hubby nya kase sobrang mahal na mahal nya kaibigan ko. ang problema, magkaiba sila ng priorities, si mitch, wants to earn, save up, and go back here, or stay there, basta goal nya makaipon. with their situation, it's not possible.
the hubby naman, on the other hand, kahit saan sila, kahit ano situation, basta magkasama sila, okay na sa kanya yun, waaah true love di ba!
sayang noh, kase hirap na nga makahanap ng someone who will love you unconditionally kaya lang parang wrong timing.
kaya nga ako, ayoko talaga commitments, promise. ang hirap i-sustain! pero sabi nga nila, kaya nga tinawag na commitment, kase there will be times na pangit ang situation, but you still have to make it work together. ang hirap promise.
iniisip ko pa lang na mag commit, natatakot na ko sa pwedeng mangyari. i'm afraid to ruin my life and ruin somebody else's in the process. it's daunting, i tell you, at least for me. i truly admire those who can keep a relationship, idol hehehehe! pero, as far as i'm concerned, siguro ako, fleeting encounters na lang hahaha para walang responsibilities. im not sure kung sa responsiblities ako takot or sa commitment. or maybe i havent met the one who will make me commit.
talagang walang secret secret to a successful life noh? kase walang 1 perfect formula, na parang one-size-fits-all thingy. buti pa condom hahaha....
one thing might work for someone, but pag sa ibang tao na hindi naman ganon.
life is indeed complicated. like now, with mitch, ako, i've always been for "making things work", "patching things up", "it's just a phase, you'll get over it", but now, as i talk to her, i can't believe na i'm telling her to leave her husband. i can't believe na yun yung nakikita kong solution to make things work for the both of them.
ako pa, eh ang conservative ng point of views ko sa marriages and relationships. pero this time, iba talaga. haaay, life, is indeed complicated.
yet the irony of it all, life is as simple as it gets, we just make things complicated.
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