Sunday, October 28, 2007

PARADIGM SHIFT

Life Lesson #1: You can't change a person no matter how you try!

This is one lesson I have to tell myself everyday, for as long as I am with IQ. I see him everyday, that's why!

A startling new development: Mr. Untouchable just got personal! Perhaps, it was sooooooo difficult for him to find something wrong with how I work (but of course, I love what I do so it would be very impossible for him to see me not giving my best), so he decided to keep his attacks on me personal! Unfortunately, I find his attacks very very funny! Why, I don't give a crap about what others think about me, most especially from those I don't care about! My security comes from the fact that I know myself very well. I know my place in this world. So there's nothing he could say that would make me think less about myself.

I don't like his style though, he tells other people about it! I wonder why he can't confront me! Hmmmmmm.....

Anyway, after learning from others that he was attacking my person, I laughed about it and suddenly I just felt that my anger towards him just got diffused. I guess, it was replaced by feeling of compassion: that he had to resort to something like that to bring me down. Awwwwwww........, now that's what I call pathetic!


Now, since I can't change him, I just have to change my perspective about him. He's not an enemy. He's not a friend either. So in the absence of any qualifier, I just decided to treat him like I treat any other stranger.

I have so many people around to focus my attention on! People on the new DTS account for example! I just love them!

Looking forward to a brand new day!

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